Sometimes when reminiscing it's easy to get into the trap of "what if". We ask ourselves what could we have done to have spent more time with loved ones or appreciate them more. Or how could we have made better choices in our life.
But God doesn't want us to spend our life in regret or sorrow, rather to look ahead at the future He has for us.
He tells us in Joel 2:25-27, "So I will restore to you the years the swarming locust has eaten, the crawling locust, the consuming locust, and the chewing locust, my great army which I sent among you, you shall eat in plenty and be satisfied, and praise the name of the Lord your God, who has dealt wondrously with you; and My people shall never be put to shame. Then you will know that I am in the midst of Israel: I am the Lord your God and there is no other. My people shall never be put to shame."
Even though our past years are gone, He tells us he will restore the years the locust has eaten. No matter what has happened or what we may regret, God can make all that up to us with our future if we let Him have control of our lives.
- Our first step in navigating the highway of regret is to not wallow in it.
- Next, when we are attacked with those feelings or thoughts, we can stop them by reminding ourselves of Joel 2:25.
- Third, learn from past regrets and make any changes necessary for our present and future.
Remember, His people will never be put to shame.
Do you have an example of overcoming this curve in your life?