by Barbara Latta
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4 ways to live in an intimate relationship with God
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Love is the foundation upon which all biblical doctrines
rest. It is the cement that holds all other revelations together. How can we
trust
our heavenly Father to save us,
provide for us, or heal us if we question the depth of His affection?
We can’t walk in power without knowing the heart of the
Father. Jesus came to restore fellowship between God and man. But sometimes
life pours doubt on the fire of God’s Word and we may question His motives
toward us. We don’t feel connected because we have allowed something to
distract us from knowing we are His beloved.
Here are 4 ways we can live in an intimate relationship with
God:
- Make scripture personal. Familiarity with passages of scripture threaten the
absorption of the deeper meaning. Banners display John 3:16 in various places,
but that doesn’t mean everyone who reads the sign believes the words. But if we
will take the time to contemplate the intent of the verses and insert our name
in the message, the scripture becomes personal. And that is what our heavenly
Father desires. The Bible is His love letter to us. Individual and personal.
- Don’t compare the Lord’s character to human emotions.
He tells us to worship in spirit and in truth, not with emotions (John 4:24). Our human minds cannot comprehend the heart of the Master of
the universe. We compare His devotion for us to human feelings because our
minds reason that our value is based on what we do or how good we can be. We
learn this because human acceptance and rewards are based on
performance. We must perform well in careers and education to be rewarded with
raises, good evaluations, and excellent grades. But God’s delight in us is
based on who He is, not what we do.
- Accept what He says by faith. Faith comes by hearing
His Word (Romans 10:17). We may not feel His love at times, but that doesn’t
change the truth. We should believe He is passionate toward us because He said
so. We love Him because He first loved us (1 John 4:19
NKJV). We can’t love God first because there isn’t anything in us to love Him
with until we live and dwell in the life He shows us. Under grace we accept His sacrifice. He is the One who did
the work.
- Make Him our Priority. Instead of seeking to have our
needs met, we simply need to seek the Father and the overflow of that
relationship will result in taking care of everything in our lives—physical,
emotional, relational, financial, and spiritual needs. But seek first the
kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to
you (Matthew 6:33).Jesus reprimanded Martha because she was too concerned about
earthly things. Her sister Mary sat at Jesus’ feet and listened to His words
and their Teacher said, “But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that
good part, which will not be taken away from her” (Luke 10:42).
When we accept the mercy and grace that has been given to
us, we change.
- God’s love can keep us out of sin. If we are grounded
in Him, then when temptation comes or when painful events happen, we won’t
react in a sinful way or retaliate in defense. We will know God’s power supersedes
all. How then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God? (Genesis
39:9).
- God’s love frees us from the fear of man. The fear of
people’s opinions will constrain us because we try to please them instead of
the Lord (Galatians 1:10). The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever trust
in the Lord shall be safe (Proverbs 29:25).
- God’s love shows us how to relate to others. Until we
know how much our Creator cherishes us, we can’t truly give to others in an
unselfish way. Our relationship with Him will overflow to other relationships. Now
hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our
hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us (Romans 5:5).
The valentine of heaven wasn’t a card sent through an
angelic mailbox. It was blood running down a wooden cross to soak into the
cursed earth. One drop would have been enough, but he used it all to show us He
goes over and beyond and does much more than we need. He paid the highest cost, and we were given
the freest gift.
Happy Valentine’s Day—from Jesus.
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