by Barbara Latta
Chocolate, roses, fancy dinners, and stuffed animals are the
primary gifts given for Valentine’s Day. These are physical reminders of affectionate
feelings for another person. But after the day is over, do we revert back to
old ways and forget the loving things said and done because of a special
holiday?
Our tokens of love are emotional. Feelings aren’t wrong, but
we can’t depend on them to guide our lives. Sometimes we don’t feel like being
loving, we would rather be grumpy or rude. But real love does the action
without the feeling.
This is God’s unconditional love. He loved us while we were
still dirty, rotten sinners (Romans 5:8). He showed the one and only kind of real love when
he gave Jesus to us as a gift wrapped in a little baby to grow into the man who
would have all the foul sin of the world placed upon him.
That was action, not emotion.
Because He loved us, we can love Him. (I John 4:10-11). And because He loved
us, we can love others. Not with a feeling, but with a showing, a doing, a
becoming what He made us to be.
Our works don’t bring us into a relationship with God. Faith
does that. Receiving grace does that (Ephesians 2:8-9). But to bring someone else into that grace
requires showing them the love of the Father. And that is where the action
comes in. Not retaliating against someone who has mistreated us, being kind to
someone who was rude in the shopping line, keeping our mouths in line with the
word when we get “blessed” out. These are the actions of love despite the
opposite feelings rising within us.
The valentine of heaven wasn’t a card sent through an
angelic mailbox. It was blood running down a wooden cross to soak into the
cursed earth. One drop would have been enough, but he used it all to show us He
goes over and beyond and does much more than we need. He paid the highest cost and we were given the
freest gift.
Happy Valentine’s Day—from Jesus.
What does this love mean to you?
Wonderful insight, Barbara! Thanks!
ReplyDeleteThank you Patricia
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